Today I just found out I am 26 weeks pregnant with a baby girl. I was absolutely over- joyed to hear this news. I was secretly hoping for a girl but did not want to say out loud unless I was pregnant with a boy, as not to insult him! I chose a name when I found out I was pregnant and hopefully I can convince her father to like this name too.
This is my third child and was conceived in a very tumultuous time in my life. I have been working on growing my cleaning business as well as raising my other two young children with their father. I do not want to loose myself to being a mother but wish to hold my identity along with motherhood, however difficult it may be.